Tuesday, June 17, 2008

yet another typical summer day here,

105 degrees - a
no rain - a
hyper boys - a

the boys are in LOVE with Miss Shelby, their sitter. They don't want her to leave & ask all afternoon if she's coming back. As guilty as I feel for working sometimes, I think it's a good break for all of us. Our afternoons are so nice with me spending my mornings busy and with adults.

the boys spent all afternoon trying to master their boggie boards for when we hit the beach. they can't wait to ride the waves! they are my children as they LOVE the water & don't care for the snow.
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after a long, hot day in the sun, they love their treehouse. this has been my best $100 investment thus far for them. I can't wait until the weather is a little cooler at night so they can camp out back there.

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Monday, June 16, 2008

fun in the sun.

this is the offical start to summer for us. it's the 1st week I didn't have to rip the kids out of bed & have them be some where at 8AM.

and the question of the summer, who's who? can you tell them apart?
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notice our NEW playscape that I scored for $100?!?!?!????

will a little closer help?
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I spent all my time setting up the slip n' slide only to discover this was so much more fun for them:
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Thursday, June 12, 2008

Summer - - love it or hate it?

what I love about summer - -
VBS
overflowing gardens of fruits & vegetables
no school
vacation
swimming
summer reading programs
cook-outs
long days


what I hate about summer - -
the heat
the humidity
VBS @ 8 am
cranky kids by afternoon
sunburn
mosquitoes
chiggers

Thursday, May 29, 2008

sneak peek moments.

yes, it's been a BUSY week. Here's my sneak peek in pictures:


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Jay got a 'diploma' too:
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I am SO proud of my boys!

some of the smaller teacher's gifts:
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yes, I've been working hard ;)

but the boy's have been taking it easy playing on the water slide:
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This doesn't even include swimming at the Country Club, Kindergarten party, Bike Obstacle course, and in typical Pearson fashion, more! as always, stay tuned........you won't be dissapointed.

we are off to Uncle Justin's High School graduation.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

my, how time flies.

I can't believe that May is already here. School is winding down and summer is rearing it's ugly head near. It's already 100 degrees here.

I've been running around like a mad mom trying to get the kids signed up for Vacation Bible School, swim lessons and various summer camps. Time is not being my friend. Jayden is out of school this Friday and Hunter next Thursday and I've yet to line up a sitter. Sometimes I wonder why I'm left to figure it all out by myself...............

moving on.....................

The hard thing about signing up for all this wonder stuff, is trying to explain Jayden's food allergy. Most people think, okay corn, but don't really think about it. High fructose corn syrup, corn meal, corn starch, corn flour which means..........no marshmallows, graham crackers, ritz crackers, and oh how the list goes on.

Since starting eliminating all corn products, Jayden's life has been turned around. You can almost certainly tell after he's had corn in his diet. First will come the Jekyll & Hyde personality and later the coughing and wheezing. And it's SO hard to try to explain to people where this comes from. And it's also SO hard trying to explain to people why he is the way he is. Children aren't as difficult and people make them out to be. People wonder why a child will yell at them they want to hit them when they get mad, is only because it's what those same people yell at a child when they are mad. Hello? Children learn what they are taught. Okay....this may be another story for another day.

Back to the allergy and it's improvements.

Jayden has calmed down quite a bit. When you take him out, he's not the grumpy, hyper child he used to be. He's calm and listens and is eager to learn.

Avoiding corn is still SO very hard. Eating out is pretty much NON-existent. Even on the RARE occasion that we do, I feel like I need to carry my own ketchup. Corn syrup is usually the 1st or 2nd ingredient in ketchup. We have to eat the Central Market brand. All hot dogs are off limits except for the Hebrew National ones and those cost us about $5 for 6. Juice boxes have been a struggle. I always thought I was doing good by buying the so called water ones, but nope, those have corn syrup as the 2nd ingredient. So much for living a healthy life before!

And granted, while the allergy itself is not life threatening, the asthma that it causes, can be. So it is my duty as a parent to find out how to protect my child. And to prevent the asthma attacks that can happen. I know I've spent countless hours online, reading and searching. But it's so hard to relay all the information I read and I just wish Kreg would do the same.

It's also hard to explain to people that press, oh just a little corn won't hurt. No, but that little bit of corn will have us up at 3 am doing a breathing treatment and that's NO fun for anyone involved. And that an allergen stays in the body for 4 days. The physical reactions can last 3-5 days and the mental 5-7. For Jayden, the mental/behavioral reactions are the hardest. The OCD of lining up his toys, the anxiety of not being able to do something right, the aggression & unexplained anger that ends up with him so upset and un-calmable. Adding steroids to him trying to calm the allergy induced asthma attack doesn't help either.

Here's some trivia for you about having a corn allergy and just how hard it is:
OFF Smooth & Dry Bug Repellent contains cornstarch. Which can cause Jayden to break out in hives if used.
Almost all vitamins contain high fructose corn syrup. Thankfully the Hero Nationals ones I order online don't!
Albuterol, a very common neb treatment, contains sodium citrate, which is derived from corn.
Over 85 different types of antibiotics are produced using corn.

The biggest ingredient we have to watch for is dextrose. Dextrose is glucose sugar refined from corn starch. Very common in IV's you get from the hospital.

You see, things aren't easy but they are getting better. And I'm left to ponder whether or not to order a Medic Alert bracelet for this allergy.

And Hunter sure has been testing his limits lately. First was at the Rec center last week as I was trying to sign them up for various things. All of a sudden the fire alarm is going off and my child is no where to be found. That's because he was in the back playing with the Emergency Exit only door. Then the next day at school, turns out he though it would be funny to lock the bathroom stall so no one else could get in and this was after he exited. When the next person tried to go, Hunter broke out in giggles. The teacher wasn't too happy and neither was mom. Then later in the week, while the other class was attempting to take a nap, Hunter broke out in some sort of loud behaviour. We had to have a very serious talk. I told him there'd be NO camp if this continued. Needless to say, he's been better.

But summer is approaching way to fast and I'm way too under prepared.

please someone, send me an angel to ease the stress and headaches.............

and oh.......the headaches. The ones the doctor gave me medicine for. The medicine that knocks me flat on my behind and leaves me incoherent. Is there some reason they can't make a migraine med that lets you keep going? I guess not since a migraine can be a sign that you need to rest and it's the way my body lets me know the most.

Friday, May 16, 2008

my little Hunter is preparing for his Kindergarten graduation.

where has the time gone?

You were six months old and full of fun.
With a blink of my eye, you suddenly were one.
There were so many things we were going to do,
But I turned my head and you turned two.
At two, you weren’t very dependent on me,
And you grew up even more when you turned three.
Your third birthday, another year I tried to ignore,
But when I lit the candles there weren't three, but four.
Four was the year that you really strived,
Why, look at you now, you're already five.
Now you are ready for books and rules.
This is the year that went to school.
The big day came; you were anxious to go.
We walked to school, me going oh so slow.
As you ran into class and waved good-bye,
I felt a lump in my throat and tears stung my eyes.
Time goes so fast, it's hard to believe
That just yesterday you were home here, with me.
So I'm holding to these moments as hard as I can,
Because the next time I look,
I'll be seeing a grown man

Monday, May 05, 2008

Garner State Park camping sneak peek pictures.

The pictures just don't do justice to how beautiful Garner State Park was. What a way to spend Kreg's birthday!

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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

one EXHAUSTED mom here.

the migraine of 4 days has finally being subdued in just enough time for Hunter's class Field Trip to Sea World. It was long and short all at the same time & I'm too exhausted to do much more than post some pictures. I've got to get some rest before our trip to Garner State Park this weekend.

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Monday, April 28, 2008

what's been going on in our world.

so much! WOW!

let's start with Popo's birthday weekend. We kicked off Friday night with the Yoakum Relay for Life event. The boys and I headed down to participate & they had a blast. I think Jayden actually ran 12 laps while Hunter entered all of the contests to try and win. I was so proud of my guys. Though they were never able to meet my Meme, they would have made her proud with all of their efforts in the event.

We attempted to take pictures in what was left of the bluebonnets & the boys weren't as thrilled as I was to be trying this.
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Aunt Marsais & Uncle Kenny came down to celebrate Pope's b-day weekend. The boys got to take an extra special ride in Aunt Marsais' car as we went to Sweet Berry Farms to pick strawberries. I'm not sure who had more fun, Aunt Marsais, Hunter or Jayden.
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We made Popo an ice cream cake for his birthday for everyone to enjoy.
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Hunter has started t-ball & is having a blast. He has decided he wants to be a catcher & is a switch hitter. Jayden is, of course, his biggest fan!
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Popo worked extremely hard with Hunter & he's now riding his bike like crazy! This has prompted Jayden to want to ride without training wheels also.
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and just like when I was little, Popo promised Hunter a trip to McDonald's when he learned to ride past the big tree near the end of the driveway. Hunter was so excited to call the other night to say Popo was taking him on a special trip. I think this is what prompted Jay to want to ride his also.

We took time away to take the boys camping at Lake Sommerville this past weekend. We knew we had a chance for severe weather but how often does the weather man say that? The boys were in hog heaven when we arrived. Looking at this, who wouldn't be?
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Nana and Popo came by Friday night to visit & we all enjoyed sitting around the camp fire. We were a little worried when it began to rain but nothing could have prepared us for the night we went through. I swear it rained for hours upon hours and thankfully, we never got wet. The rain wasn't near as bad as the wind that then was graced upon us. Our tent was literally folding in half on top of us. It would whip from one side to the other. The boys slept through it all, leaving Kreg and I to try and keep us all from suffocating. It was all worth it to get up and enjoy the beautiful weather on Saturday.
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Hunter spent so much time trying to 'catch' the 'floating' shad to bring home. He had them all named & thought they were going to live with him in his room. Somehow I managed to pry them out of his hands with the notion we'd get a 'real' pet fish.

From the kite flying, scootering riding, all day & night fishing, weinnie roasting, playground playing, & tent sleeping, Kreg and I were left exhausted and the boys having a blast.

It makes us look forward to doing it all over again this weekend at Garner State Park in celebration of Kreg's birthday. This time Uncle Justin and Nana & Popo will be joining us for the whole trip.

And now on to the 'other' news. As my parents were heading home Saturday night along a back road, they stumble across a hat and shoe in the road. They looked at each other and slowed down. What they saw next, frighteded them. A body on the side of the road. Mom calls 911 who then wants them to turn around to see if the body needed an ambulance. Dad stated under no circumstances was anyone getting out of the car. And from the way the body was laying, the didn't think an ambulance was needed. Finally the Sheriff's deptarment & other various ententies show up & then keep my parents there for over an hour and a half. We still don't know much but you can read about it here.

Jayden's corn free diet has been going well. I get frustrated very easily with shopping at our local HEB but we are truckin' along. Since we've started this almost 2 weeks ago, we've taken him off Singulair & haven't had to do one neb treatment. He's had 1 asthma attack after eating an ice cream bar with corn syrup in it. At least I knew why the attack was happening. With having to pay special attention to all labels now, it's quite amazing how much stuff contains corn startch and high frutose corn syrup. Sometimes the worst culprites are Reduced Fat or 1/3 fat items. Shocking. So many things are still hit & miss but things hopefully one day will become more natural to us. And things have been so much more calm for all of us. Even a doctor noticed the other day how calm he was in the office. Instead of the usual bouncing all the walls, he sat and colored very quietly by himself. It was a little eerie. For the LOVE of mexican food, I will give it up to have a happy & calm child.

I wanted to post the article that lead me to find out what was going on with Jayden. It and along with the asthma attack in the middle of Kenny's wedding that left me grasping for answers, really helped me to find answers.

Food Sensitivities: The Hidden ProblemsRobert J. Doman, MD.
Parents today are often concerned about possible allergies in their children, but they are relatively unfamiliar with possible food sensitivities and their complications.

Check the following list. If three or more apply to your child, food sensitivity may be a problem:

Sometimes congested
History of ear infections
Behavior; frequent ups and downs
Poor attention span at times
Night or morning coughing spells
Variable hearing; sometimes good, sometimes poor
Post-nasal drip
Headaches
Periods of restlessness

Although the problems listed above undoubtedly have a number of possible causes, food sensitivities must be considered as one of the most likely.

When you think of allergies, you often think of hives or a skin rash, but the symptoms of food sensitivities are generally not as obvious or as dramatic as those of allergies. As a result, we describe them as hidden problems—this is particularly true with children. Common symptoms of food sensitivity are congestion of the nose and throat, often accompanied by headaches and post-nasal drip.

Food sensitivities can be quite variable. Certain foods frequently, but not always, cause problems. For example, eating a suspected food during the daytime when the child is active may cause little or no problem. However, the same food eaten before bedtime may lead to severe congestion through the night and the next morning. As a result, bedtime snacks, in particular, need to be avoided by children with food sensitivities.

What are the most common foods to which your child might be sensitive? Dr. Feingold, in his book Why Your Child Is Hyperactive, gave a long list which included foods and products with additives, including color additives, etc., and foods containing natural salicylates, including many fruits and some nuts. Contact your local Feingold Association for more details on his program.
NACD generally recommends that parents who suspect a food sensitivity in their child consider an elimination type of diet. By this we mean gradually eliminating certain potential offenders such as milk products, chocolate, citrus fruits, wheat, etc. When you eliminate the worst offenders, you may see a definite change in the child for the better.

If congestion of the nose and throat is one of your child's symptoms, you should be alert to potential ear problems. As adults, the sinus spaces in our skulls tend to act as buffers for infections of the nose and throat. Children have small underdeveloped sinus spaces so that nose and throat infections are generally pushed back quickly into the middle ear via the Eustachian Tube in the throat.

Pediatricians, although good at treating ear infections, often miss its most common hidden complication—fluid in the middle ear after the infection. Fluid in the middle ear often causes many of the problems listed earlier in this article, and is frequently undetected by parents and pediatricians even when the eardrum is looked at.

If you suspect such a problem in your child, you should take your child to an Ear, Nose, and Throat Specialist and ask for a simple, easy, and safe test called a Tympanogram. The test takes only ten minutes and does not even require the child's cooperation. The doctor simply blows some air against the eardrum (Tympanic Membrane) to measure its motion. If fluid is present behind the drum, the doctor might recommend that small plastic ear tubes be inserted.
It has also been recommended that children with recurrent ear infections gargle twice a day with warm water in order to keep the Eustachian tube open.

Be aware of such possible problems in your child and attempt to eliminate foods causing congestion.